I'm trying to buy a new console for my bike. I found the part on bikebandit and BMW sites but the part that shows up in the schematics (& at my door) doesn't look anything like the one on my bike. The one they sent me doesn't have openings for the speakers (1 example of what seems wrong).

The schematic you have added is for the electric windshield-equipped bikes.

There's another one for the fixed windshield bikes:



Look under "Windshield Comfort" (diagram #46 0368):

http://www.maxbmwmotorcycles.com/fiche/DiagramsMain.aspx?vid=51750&rnd=04302013