Hi,
As Bert says relay sticking is a common problem when trying to start with a flat battery or suspect battery. Sometimes a sharp whack on the side of the relay box will dislodge the relay contacts apart again.
Sadly you are almost certainly in for giving the bike a Christmas present - a new battery. The flooded cell type are not too expensive, the agm (absorbed glass mat) are a bit more expensive, there have been a lot of negative reports about the genuine BMW battery longevity, my dealer parts guy says apart from being eye wateringly expensive they have not been reliable over the last year or so. YUASA have a good reputation and last well if looked after.
Can I suggest you also splash out and get an Optimate III SP or Accumate V charger and permanently connect it through the bike electrical socket above the coils whilst the bike is not being ridden, most models have one of the sockets, the plugs are available from your BMW dealer or others. I have tried the Hella plugs they are OK but the genuine BMW plugs although double the price are much better made.
Either of the above chargers will keep the battery in top condition by putting it through a complex charging process which will ensure that the battery is ready to go and either will warn you if the battery is not holding charge and either can be left permanently connected whilst the bike is standing which ordinary car battery chargers cannot as ordinary car battery chargers left on for any long period will damage the battery.
As a very outside chance the Optimate III SP can sometimes recover sulphated batteries (which your old one almost certainly is) so may be the better choice to buy and have a go recovering the old one prior to buying a new battery.
You probably already know the following but don't ever disconnect the battery after starting, if the revs rise much above tickover even a momentary disconnection of the battery can cause expensive electronic damage to components due to over voltage. All alternators without a battery present to force them to self regulate can output high voltage (I have seen 120 volts out of a car alternator which was being used as a high voltage generator) that sort of voltage on Motronic and ABS brains will fry them dead as a doornail in the blink of an eye but as I said at the start you probably already knew that sorry for banging on.
Regards,
K-BIKE
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