Hi Kev,
Jaycar sell Deoxit, it is where I got mine from, they do the pens which I bought but the bottles are better value (bought those too). The mini aerosols are not good value as they get used up tooo quickly for my taste. If you buy just one of the above get the kit with the liquid in two little bottles one red one gold. Whip the relay our and have a look for poor connections in the solder around the components on the pc board. That is a huge problem on Volvos with many of the relays particularly on the fuel injection relay, but I digress. The fact it is OK cold and is a hot phenomenon only says to me it is a problem with something warming up and expanding and breaking contact.